Archive for June, 2010
Pride Week-celebrating diversity.
Published June 29, 2010 Relationships Leave a CommentTags: gay and lesbian rights, gay pride
and even death at the hands of people living next door.
Quotes for Intentional Living – 6/26/10
Published June 26, 2010 Quotes for Intentional Living Leave a CommentTags: lost love, love, rilke
A Day for Dads
Published June 20, 2010 Parenting Issues Leave a CommentTags: dad, father's day, fathers, happy father's day
Father’s Day is a happy day…
for many. But not for everyone.
For most people the relationship with their dad is memorable.
For others the relationship may be confused with some not so good memories.
Still other people did not know their father and have either no memories, or have only the reconstructed memories cobbled from stories they were told and old photographs.
Father’s Day can be a day of varied meaning, yet our popular culture seeks to make everyone’s Father’s Day into the Hallmark moment it may not be.
The greeting cards in the stores don’t show it, but there are many people who are having a different experience inside than what is displayed on the cards. It’s good to celebrate if you can. Embrace the meaning of the day, and let your Dad know. Or tell a funny story to preserve his memory.
If your connection to your father was more complicated, if you are sad, or mad, or just miss him, you are not alone. And you can explore your memories and how they affect you with a therapist of your choice.
Happy Father’s Day — today, or if not, very soon.
Quotes for Intentional Living – 6/19/10
Published June 19, 2010 Quotes for Intentional Living Leave a CommentTags: june 19th, june nineteenth, juneteenth
June 19th: central to some, obscure to many, relevant to all.
Published June 15, 2010 Quotes for Intentional Living Leave a CommentTags: emancipation proclamation, june 19th, juneteenth, slavery
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Juneteenth” is a holiday that speaks to all Americans.
This statue on the grounds of Ashton Villa in Galveston, Texas commemorates the reading of the Emancipation Proclamation at that site on June 19, 1865.
Though Abraham Lincoln issued the Emancipation Proclamation on September 22, 1862, with an effective date of January 1, 1863, it had minimal immediate effect on most slaves’ day-to-day lives, particularly in Texas, which was almost entirely under Confederate control. Texas was resistant to the Emancipation Proclamation. Juneteenth commemorates June 19, 1865, the day Union General Gordon Granger and 2,000 federal troops arrived in Galveston, Texas to take possession of the state and enforce the emancipation of its slaves. On June 19, 1865, legend has it while standing on the balcony of Galveston’s Ashton Villa, Granger read the contents of “General Order No. 3”:
“The people of Texas are informed that, in accordance with a proclamation from the Executive of the United States, all slaves are free. This involves an absolute equality of personal rights and rights of property between former masters and slaves, and the connection heretofore existing between them becomes that between employer and hired labor.”
Knowing the history of all Americans enhances our ideal of becoming one America.
Quotes for Intentional Living-6/12/10
Published June 12, 2010 Quotes for Intentional Living Leave a CommentAnxiety: fears and facts.
Published June 8, 2010 Mental Health Issues Leave a CommentTags: anxiety, anxiety attacks, anxiety facts, Emotional Health, fear of anxiety, panic, panic attacks, worry about anxiety
“We have nothing to fear except fear itself.”
When President Roosevelt spoke those words he captured a singular truth about the way we respond to our own anticipation of difficult events or situations. Our fearful expectations can become more debilitating than the actual event of which we’re afraid. This is especially true when we become afraid of our own anxiety.
Intense anxiety and Panic Attacks can be frightening, for sure. The physical sensations associated with anxiety tend to increase the fearful feelings. If however these sensations are better understood then a large measure of the fear may be diminished. Here are some common Fears and the Facts that may help to reassure you.
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The sensations mean there is something physically wrong! No. The sensations associated with anxiety are triggered by body chemicals related to your emotional state.
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An anxiety attack, once begun, could never end! No. Anxiety attacks cannot last forever because you run out of the body chemicals that cause the sensations.
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Anxiety can drive people crazy! No. Anxiety is a natural response, but causes problems when it happens too often or causes you to do things that make matters worse.
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Anxiety will make me so dizzy that I pass out. No. The body’s reaction to anxiety is actually the opposite of what would cause you to pass out.
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Anxiety attacks will get worse and worse. No, anxiety attacks respond to what you do about them. You can reduce their intensity and even eliminate them all together.